Bride FAQ: The First Look

Today I am going to talk about a growing trend in the wedding world. That is, the “First look” or “First Glance”.

So what is a first look you ask? To put it simply a first look is where the bride and groom spend a few moments together before the ceremony and that initial ‘wow’ moment is captured in private. That’s right. Before the ceremony.

The idea is to find a private location for the two of you to spend a few minutes taking in the whole day with your very soon to be husband or wife. Typically I will go scout a beautiful location (such as a garden or courtyard) and lead over your groom to the area and then have you enter in from behind and come up and give him a little tap on the shoulder (or heck, you can jump on his back!) and then have that first peep at eachother be a more intimate and private moment that is captured from a decent distance. After that we are free to take your bride and groom photos in private and get a large part of your photos done before the ceremony.

Now that you have the basic idea of the First Look Session I am just going to list some things to think about when deciding if this is right for you.

The First Look may be right for you if:

– You want to share the first look in a private setting.

– You think you will be nervous during the ceremony. Many brides say they feel so much more relaxed after doing a first look.

– You want to stray from the super traditional.

– You are having an evening wedding and would like some photos while it is still light out.

– You have a very strict timeline but still want lots of those funky and romantic Bride and Groom photos.

– You want some of your photos at a different location.

– You want all the formal photos done before the ceremony so you can pretty much go straight to the reception or cocktail hour.

The First look may NOT be right for you if:

– You are very traditional.

– You have always dreamt of having your groom see you for the first time walking down the aisle in front of everyone, like a big reveal.

– You are having a early afternoon wedding.

I know that many photographers are very pro “First Look”. It’s really a great idea, a big stress reliever for everyone. But! Remember, it’s your wedding. You need to talk it over with your groom and see what best fits the idea you have for your wedding day and photography. It can be a great way to share and take in your wedding day together, but do what’s right for you.

And of course, some photos!